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Choosing Alignment Over Attachment
It’s a strange time to be alive. The political climate in the United States has divided people in ways I never remember experiencing before. Lines have been drawn through families, friendships, communities. Things that once felt like differences of opinion now feel like fundamental breaks in values. For a long time, I tried to tolerate that. I told myself that love meant making room. That family meant endurance. That disagreement didn’t have to be disqualifying. Until one day
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Jan 16


When Safety and Freedom Switched Places
I had been watched my entire life by someone. So when I finally found myself alone, truly alone, the idea didn’t feel peaceful at all. It terrified me. At first, I told myself the fear was about practical things. Small, reasonable concerns. I lose my keys. I misplace my phone. What would I do if there was no one there to help me find them? So I solved that. I bought tracker tags for my keys and my phone. Now, when I misplace them, I open an app and they tell me exactly where
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Jan 9


When Being Watched Felt Like Love
For a long time, I believed I had failed to protect my boundaries in my marriage. That I had allowed too much. That I hadn’t spoken up clearly or firmly enough. That I had somehow participated in my own erasure. But that story doesn’t quite hold. Inside the relationship, I didn’t really have boundaries. Not because I didn’t enforce them — but because I had never learned they were allowed to exist. As a child, I had no privacy. None. My phone calls were listened to. My belongi
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Jan 2


Reclaiming Your Power: Setting Boundaries and Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
Breaking free from the grips of a narcissistic, abusive relationship is a courageous step toward reclaiming your life. Yet, the scars...
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Jan 2, 2024


Shattered to Empowered: Journey Through Narcissistic Abuse
I've witnessed the remarkable turnaround in every aspect of my own life; relationships, finances, career, self-love, and I now guide clients
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Dec 14, 2023
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